Is there anyone out there that can relate to this? anyone have an opinion?

know that I shouldn't hate as bad as I do but right this very minute my blood is boiling. I'm basically venting. Our stepdaughter moved out last week because she turned 18 and wanted to go to a party but the night before the party she started hollaring at her dad so he told her to forget @ the party and she said she was leaving and going anyway. she has had a nasty attitude problem for a while especially towards me and my daughter. he told her that night that if she leaves dont come back! now he wants her to come back home for @ a week until she goes to grandmas. I know that if the shoe was on the other foot with my daughter that I would probably make my daughter learn her lesson. she made her bed why cant she lye in it? I am so happy that she's gone! I do not want her coming back even for a day. this probably sounds so bad but if you've been through what i have you'd understand. I told him that if she comes here, then I'm moving out. do you think I'm wrong? what's your story?